Woman, 27, sent letter to her GP begging for help before she died (2025)

A young woman who was left bedridden and unable to move due to ME sent a letter to her GP begging for 'help with feeding' just months before she died, an inquest has heard.

Maeve Boothby-O'Neill, 27, pleaded 'I'm hungry, and I want to eat' in a desperate letter that heartbreakingly ended: 'Please help me get enough food to live.'

A week before her death in October 2021 she texted her doctor saying: 'I wish I had been a more treatable patient.'

The inquest in Exeter, Devon, heardMiss Boothby-O'Neill had been getting weaker since January 2021 and by March could not feed herself.

She was unable to chew and had difficulty drinking as she could not sit up with her mother feeding her through a syringe, the inquest heard.

Miss Boothby-O'Neill had been suffering from fatigue since the age of 13 which got worse after she completed her A-levels, and she later struggled to maintain 'any normality due to fatigue'.

She had been diagnosed with myalgic encephalomyelitis (ME) and died at home in Exeter.

Maeve Boothby-O'Neill, 27,was left bedridden and unable to move due to ME. She sent a letter to her GP begging for 'help with feeding' just months before she died at her home in Exeter in October 2021

According to medical notes, by July she was unable to read, watch TV or engage in conversations, having spent the majority of her time horizontal. She was only getting out of bed to use the toilet.

Miss Boothby-O'Neill had wanted to be treated at home and 'reluctantly' agreed to hospital admissions.

But despite being admitted three times to the Royal Devon and Exeter Hospital, she was discharged each time and sent home.

In the agonising letter on June 18 to her GP Dr Lucy Shenton, she pleads for help as she says she can't get enough calories from a syringe.

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'Dear Dr Shenton, I know you are doing your best for me, but I really need help with feeding,' she wrote.

'I don't understand why the hospital didn't do anything to help when I went in. I am hungry, I want to eat,' she wrote.

'I have been unable to sit up or chew since March and the only person helping me eat is my mum. I cannot get enough calories from a syringe.

'Please help me get enough food to live.'

She had also completed an advanced decisions document about her future treatment if she was unable to communicate her wishes.

In it she wrote: 'I wish to remain at home and be cared for at home in the community. ME/CFS is a diagnosis by elimination, and I have had every test possible all of which, except one, proved negative.

'The positive test was for mitochondrial function in blood (2016). The only recommended and reliable treatment for ME/CFS is complete rest remaining below my anaerobic threshold and pacing every activity.

'I do not seem to have been able to do this despite spending all my time horizontal since January 2021.

'I agree to admission to hospital for treatment only if there are clearly and fully considered reasons ie. hydration and nutrition.

'When I am in hospital, please enable these medications, supplements and dietary needs.

'I have been unable to eat solid food since March 19 2021 having lost the ability to chew.'

Despite being admitted three times to the Royal Devon and Exeter Hospital (pictured), she was discharged each time and sent home

Miss Boothby-O'Neill had been admitted three times to the Royal Devon and Exeter Hospital, but was discharged each time and sent home.

Dr Shenton's colleague, Dr Paul McDermott, told the hearing she 'ticked all the boxes for very severe ME'.

'As GPs we are not experts and we rely on other people to help us out,' he told the coroner.

'We don't have any other patients who have been anywhere as near severe as Maeve.'

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He said he was 'slightly shocked' that having admitted her to hospital in March 2021, she was sent home the same day.

Miss Boothby-O'Neill's mother, Sarah Boothby, wrote to the GP practice manager in the April wanting to know what had 'gone badly wrong' with the care of her daughter.

'Since March 10 2021 I have been the only person providing care for a person unable to sit, stand or chew,' she wrote.

'This is a long-term chronic condition without prognosis or treatment protocol. What is the plan for hydration, liquid, nourishment and transfers to a bedside commode in the community?

'You had arranged to speak by phone to me before the pandemic in February 2020. You didn't call as arranged then and when I rang the surgery, they told me you were off sick.

'This case was urgent then and it is very urgent now.'

In a statement Ms Boothby described her daughter as an 'exceptional' child and an A-grade student.

'She loved learning languages, she had a lively and active interest in world affairs. She looked forward to travelling beyond the UK after finishing school,' she said.

'After finishing school, she was too severely affected by ME to go travelling or take up a place at university.'

Her father, Sean O'Neill, a journalist with The Times newspaper, added: 'Maeve was bright, creative, articulate and opinionated.

'She was academically gifted, very articulate, and a challenging debater.

'But I especially wanted it to be remembered that she was a special big sister to Danny and Lily.

'Her death has been hard for Danny and Lily to understand. Illness stopped them knowing her better, but they knew her love and on her death bed she remembered them.'

The inquest, which is scheduled to last two weeks, continues.

Woman, 27, sent letter to her GP begging for help before she died (2025)
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